Add excludeRowIds to search method

[steFaiz]

Purpose

Parts of apache/paimon#8322

This PR add an excludeRowIds param to vector search, so that those deleted vectors will not affect choosing real-top-K similar vectors.

Core changes:

1. Add a new method with optional including row ids and excluding row ids
2. Move RowIdFilter struct to a new common file. Re export this class in ivfpq file to ensure backward compatibility
3. NO public API changes

Tests

Add tests for core, c, c++, java, python module

[steFaiz]

@JingsongLi PTAL if you have some time, thanks!

[steFaiz]

I think this may be not necessary. For RBM, storing includeRowIds as fullRange NOT exclusiveRowIds and directly storing exclusiveRowIds may have a similar storage cost.