Refactor force and stress calculations to reduce peak memory usage and improve maintainability

[dyzheng]

Details

Currently, the force and stress calculations in ABACUS use excessive temporary memory. I propose a refactor to lower the memory peak and standardize the implementation of force calculations, making the code easier to maintain.

Task list for Issue attackers (only for developers)

• Reproduce the performance issue on a similar system or environment.
• Identify the specific section of the code causing the performance issue.
• Investigate the issue and determine the root cause.
• Research best practices and potential solutions for the identified performance issue.
• Implement the chosen solution to address the performance issue.
• Test the implemented solution to ensure it improves performance without introducing new issues.
• Optimize the solution if necessary, considering trade-offs between performance and other factors (e.g., code complexity, readability, maintainability).
• Review and incorporate any relevant feedback from users or developers.
• Merge the improved solution into the main codebase and notify the issue reporter.

[dyzheng]

I have tested test/performance/P105_Si512_lcao to verify if the memory cost less than v3.10.0 after #6881 , and I think the memory cost in red line disappeared after #6881 , but the memory record in develop is broken now.

v3.10.0:

develop branch after #6881