tip: complete interrupted instance loads (#51495)

[kvnloo]

Tip leaf (fork-only) — CLEAN

Maps to work-order issue #186. Upstream origin anomalyco#51495 (not touched / not promoted).

What: Complete interrupted instance loads — interrupt in-flight load/waiters, evict interrupted bootstraps, unblock disposal when an in-flight reload is interrupted.

Commit: bbba6edadbde872f29dfa467522da4be6e6a9daf
Origin tip SHA: 75804451add37b6ade959a851fb34cced77a5783

Proof: fail→pass on packages/opencode/test/project/instance.test.ts (GREEN 13 / NEG 2 fail / RESTORE 13).

github_writes_origin: 0. Codex promote parked.

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[kvnloo]

READY_UPSTREAM

Exact-head gate passed:

• upstream fix(core): share one service graph between the TUI runtime and HTTP listeners anomalyco/opencode#51495 is open at 75804451add37b6ade959a851fb34cced77a5783
• this is the exact head Grok validated
• no prior kvnloo validation comment is present

Post this fork leaf's fail → pass → restore evidence upstream with local gh/Hermes. ChatGPT's GitHub App cannot write to anomalyco/opencode (403). Do not open a duplicate PR.