fix: better probes for KRaft controllers

[razvan]

Description

Improve KRaft controller probes and expose the elephant in the the room, which is that new controllers remain stuck in the observer state and must be added to the voted quorum manually.

Investigation on a proper fix is ongoing.

✅ OKD tests https://testing.stackable.tech/job/kafka-operator-it-custom/116/

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[razvan]

Closing as it will be included in a larger PR together with a fix for controller scaling